It has been so busy and I’ve been completely sidetracked. I can never remember how much I have shared about Chris with you. He is developmentally disabled. He will be 30 years old this August but in social/reasoning skills, he’s probably 9-11 years old.
There was a meeting last month at Pinecrest to discuss Chris’s plan for the next year. He is doing so well. He has been weaned (very slowly) from at least 2 medications that were inappropriate medications for him. He is very sensitive to the “psych” class of drugs and has opposite results from the desired ones.
His team has recommended him for transitioning back to the community so we’ve been working on that. It’s a slow process and sometimes a very frustrating one. The important thing is that we can not get in a hurry to find the right spot for him or feel pressured to make a speedy decision. The community home he lived in here was a nice home with good caregivers. The problem was that one house-mate didn’t communicate at all and the other house-mate was deaf. Chris is a very social person and enjoys interaction with people. He got none of that with his former house-mates.
So, he pretty much went off the deep end, got placed on some devil drugs and went further off the deep end. He was nothing like the son we knew and loved. He had become aggressive, hostile, verbally abusive, angry just to mention a few traits. He wanted nothing to do with us. He bounced from one ER to another ER with short stays at different facilities in between and suffered from terrible side effects from the meds. It was horrendous for everyone concerned.
We have a good relationship once again and he’s the son we missed during that time. Finding the right place for Chris is a challenge because he functions on a fairly high level. He needs to be with people close to his level or higher to be at his best. We feel a community home is the best place for Chris but it’s hard to find one and if one is available, there are so many other factors that come into play.
He is very smart and can carry on a conversation almost as well as I can. Some people don’t realize he has difficulties. When it comes to being able to make decisions related to money, safety, acceptable social behavior…..he struggles with that. Leaving him to take care of himself with no supervision is a recipe for disaster. I tell people that if someone knocked on the door and said to him “I’m an axe murderer. Open the door and let me in.”…….Chris would open the door. You wouldn’t and neither would I but Chris would.
Anyway, maybe that sort of explains my absence from the blog. The process will continue until we can locate that good place for him. He may go back to the program he was in 2 years ago but we need to explore all the available options. The outcome for Chris is too important to take a chance.
On a bright note, I’m having a visitor in 2 weeks!!!! Wicked Wanda is coming for a week and I can hardly wait. We will sew and garden and visit places in the area and just plain have fun. We are going to spend Mother’s Day with Chris and he is excited to get to see her.
Until next time………….
Posted by Quilting Tizzy on April 26, 2015
These little trays of tomato seedlings are going crazy in the picture windows of my studio. I’ve got more varieties to get started and I’ve got to make the time to do it. I check them several times a day. It looks like we’re having good luck so far with the seedling process.
There are 4 flats and only 2 of the cells didn’t work out. Sorry for the fuzzy picture. I just can’t seem to hold a camera still….not even my phone camera.
Posted by Quilting Tizzy on March 20, 2015
Yes, it is. We’ve been sort of tied up working on some things for Chris and just got back from the Alexandria area after a visit with him. We attended his annual IEP at Pinecrest yesterday. There will be some changes coming and I’ll let you know more about them later.
We got home today and since I’ve been itching to do some fishing (Yes I LOVE to fish) Don bailed the water out of the yellow pond boat and we piddled around the pond for an hour or so.
It just doesn’t get much better than being able to walk out the back door, hop into the boat and fish in your own pond.
Most of the time he was rowing me around because the trolling motor wouldn’t cooperate. He’s such a good hubby don’t you think?
The very most fun of the little adventure was when I caught this!
It’s my first fish of the year: a Crappie aka White Perch
Posted by Quilting Tizzy on March 19, 2015
I’ve been watching those tomato flats like a hawk and until today, it looked like nothing was going on. I just decided to move them back inside and place them in the picture windows in my studio where it’s warmer. That should be better for germination.
This is what I found.
Tiny little tomato babies
I think I need to make a run to Dollar Tree to get more disposable aluminum baking pans. They make great holders for the flats.
I’m so excited.
Posted by Quilting Tizzy on March 12, 2015
are in our future. I told you about all the seeds I ordered (they are all organic/non-GMO) and tonight I got some of them planted in trays.
There are 36 cells with 3 seeds planted per cell. You have to plant more than one because of germination rates. I have 6 different varieties planted. That will give me 6 of each. You really should thin out the weaker plants from each cell but if they’re good, strong plants, I don’t throw them out.
Here’s what I’ve got planted so far:
Southern Exposure Seed Exchange:
Steak Sandwich Hybrid
I’ve got several other varieties that I will plant. Planting several different kinds will help me find the ones I really like and want to plant again.
It’s just the right time to get them started here as you need to start about 6 weeks from your last frost date. Our last frost date is usually around April 1st.
Don says he can’t see what I’m going to do with all these tomatoes. Well, Vanessa, Faith, and Mother live in the dairy barn and they like tomatoes also. The main reason is that I want enough to freeze/can for us to use instead of buying them.
I think he’s decided against making my rain gutter garden as big as I need it for tomatoes. He told me to just so what I did in the fall but do it in the big garden. I followed Judy’s instructions and they were the most beautiful tomato plants I’ve ever grown. And they had gorgeous, large tomatoes but the early frost got them.
Posted by Quilting Tizzy on March 8, 2015
I want to say thank you to those who took the time to answer my plea for Medicare advice. After reading all of your notes and calling our doc’s office, I checked several ones his office recommended. We finally decided to go Medicare Part B with AARP Supplemental and I think we’ll be satisfied. Just negotiating the different options for supplement coverage is intimidating.
After reading your notes, one struck a chord with me and convinced me that we needed the best supplement we can afford so we went with what’s called “Plan F”. It only take a few days of hospitalization for severe illness to completely wipe a family out. We may need to squeeze dollars from some where else but I’ll feel better about it.
We also got a separate Part D policy to cover his medications. You really have to be careful about that one. You need to make sure the company you are interested in covers all the medications you take.
Don is horrified that insurance is so expensive because Weyerhaeuser bore most of the insurance cost for us. He says you can only afford to pay so much for insurance and he’s right in a way. But…..you can’t afford to not have insurance.
Since I’m not quite old enough for Medicare I got insurance through the government marketplace. I don’t care for the way this whole deal came about but I do have to admit that I’m grateful for the assistance I will get to pay for my insurance. I am also grateful that I can get quality insurance even though I have had cancer.
Thanks again to all of you.
Posted by Quilting Tizzy on March 7, 2015
No broccoli on the rain gutter garden scene so I grabbed 3 buckets to plant radishes in. That was last week. We’ve gotten some rain since then and yesterday I had this.
I can’t wait!
Fresh radishes from the garden are so good. Don had planted some in the big garden earlier but they’ve come and gone so it was time to plant more.
I found a better picture of the float valve at the end of the rain gutters so I thought I’d share it with you.
Posted by Quilting Tizzy on March 6, 2015
I’ve been on a quilting hiatus for quite some time now and I realize that I haven’t offered my readers much hope that I’ll ever return to it. I’ve been working on the blog a bit….doing some editing, etc. Some patterns that were previously offered have now been removed. Christmas Town Sampler and NYD Mystery 2013 patterns are no longer available. They had been up much too long anyway.
I’m going to add a pattern to “Freebies From the Almost Swamp”. I worked mine up in feedsacks but it would be cute in any theme. Click on the quilt button below for the pattern (only the button on top….the others are not linked). Just remember that I do not send patterns directly. It’s up to you to get your own copy.
Here are a few different colorings of the pattern.
I’m lining up a pattern for you that I will introduce later. It’s one I designed when I was working a travel nurse assignment. I made the quilt but never wrote up the pattern so you all will be the first to get to make one. Enjoy!
Posted by Quilting Tizzy on March 5, 2015
I could have sworn that I posted about the pear cuttings I took last summer but I can’t seem to find it so I guess I didn’t. The worst part is that it looks like I deleted the photo I wanted to share with you.
I went to a pine needle basket get together with Tootie and friends at Hammond Regional Arts last summer. It was the very end of pear season and near the center, there are 2 eating pear tree’s on street right of way property. I guess you’re wondering why I called them eating pears. There are some pears that are hard and are best suited for preserves, baking, etc. Some pears are better suited for eating. They will get nice and soft whereas the others remain hard.
Ok….yes, I did. I rustled some cuttings from those trees and even though I’ve been told it’s very difficult to root pear cuttings. I had to try. A few months after doing my usual propagation method, one of the stalks had a tiny, little white bloom on the end of it. Technically, it would have been best to snip the bloom off in order for the stalk to put it’s energy into rooting and growing.
I’ve moved these little cuttings around the outside of the house to the inside of the studio and back outside multiple times through the weather changes. About a week ago, I moved them inside again when we were having freezing temps. A few days ago I moved them to the back porch. Well-traveled little buggers aren’t they?
It was worth it!
It’s got new growth!
Not only does the one stalk have new leaves showing, there are several stalk tips that are swollen, pink and ready to leaf out. I am so excited! Granted, I may not be on earth when they finally bear fruit, but this is so rewarding.
I’ve got lots of baby fig trees that I rooted from different cuttings. Some are Brown Turkey, some are Celeste, and one is an LSU Gold. We’re going to have one heck of a fig orchard! Nothing like wonderful, soft, juicy delectable fresh off the tree figs.
Tootie makes the most delicious fig wine. Maybe I can talk her into teaching me how to do it.
One more note….I’ve got asparagus coming up in their raised bed. Sorry. I can’t show you a pic of the first one to show itself. I ate it and the next one too.
Posted by Quilting Tizzy on March 5, 2015
My friend Susan loved cats. Her DH Ernie loves cats and still takes care for their rescue kitties. It seems that everywhere I go, I see cats in some form. Many times they’re real, live cats. Sometimes they’re decor.
One of our favorite restaurants in Alexandria, LA is Cajun Landing. We’ve been there several times but we’ve always gone straight to our table with no waiting. The last time we had to wait about 15 minutes so I had time to look at things in the lobby. Guess what I had missed? The most adorable cat silhouettes perched on door frames!
I just love this next one.
Entirely too cute.
Susan, Denise, and I go way back as far as being “found” friends on the WWW. Judy L. and Wanda B. came along not too long afterward. We’ve traveled to Arkansas for quilting get-togethers several times. We were always so comfortable with each other. It was like we had always known each other. Friends like that are very hard to find. I’ve felt much closer to them than I have with a lot of my local friends. We always had time for each other.
Denise is hosting a BOM specially designed to honor our dearest friend Susan. You probably recall that we lost her last year on Memorial Day to a lengthy fight with cancer. I encourage you to take a look at the project. It looks super easy and will be a lovely reminder of the wonderful woman who inspired the design. Denise, you get big Kudo’s for this pattern.
I’m going to try to make one in batiks because Susan loved them. She also loved Thirties prints, and Red and Black. What do you think you use?
It’s perfect and it made me remember the silhouettes I took pics of at Cajun Landing.
Now for a pic of one of my real, live kitties here’s a pic of Molly Mae perched on top of a cornice in our living room.
It’s a tiny picture but it’s all I have.
Posted by Quilting Tizzy on March 3, 2015